Manners and Social Usages
by OpenStories
Original author: M. E. W. Sherwood
"Manners and Social Usages" by M. E. W. Sherwood is an etiquette manual likely written in the late 19th century. The book explores the principles of social conduct, aiming to provide guidance on proper manners pertinent to various aspects of life in American society, particularly as it contrasts with European customs. The opening of the manual establishes the context for its creation, highlighting the unique nature of American society, which was evolving rapidly in the absence of a structured aristocracy. Sherwood elaborates on how etiquette is influenced by both tradition and contemporary social changes, leading to the necessity of creating a distinct American etiquette that balances respectability and accessibility. Prominent themes in the introduction revolve around addressing common questions regarding manners in social situations, the role of women in shaping social gatherings, and the challenges of navigating these evolving customs. The text invites readers to approach the nuances of etiquette with both respect and adaptability, highlighting the significance of good manners as a reflection of one’s character and societal contributions.
Manners and Social Usages, by M. E. W. Sherwood. Republished by OpenStories from Project Gutenberg eBook #8399.
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60 Chapters
- 1.Preface1,854 words
- 2.Chapter I: Women as Leaders4,487 words
- 3.Chapter II: Optional Civilities1,986 words
- 4.Chapter III: Good and Bad Society2,091 words
- 5.Chapter IV: On Introducing People3,653 words
- 6.Chapter V: Visiting2,230 words
- 7.Chapter VI: Invitations, Acceptances, and Regrets1,968 words
- 8.Chapter VII1,965 words
- 9.Chapter VIII: The Etiquette of Weddings2,964 words
- 10.Chapter IX: "who Pays for the Cards?"1,973 words
- 11.Chapter X: Weddings After Easter1,923 words
- 12.Chapter XI: Summer Weddings1,584 words
- 13.Chapter XII: Autumn Weddings1,856 words
- 14.Chapter XIII: Before the Wedding and After1,906 words
- 15.Chapter XIV: Gold, Silver, and Tin Weddings2,139 words
- 16.Chapter XV: The Etiquette of Balls2,082 words
- 17.Chapter XVI: Fashionable Dancing2,464 words
- 18.Chapter XVII: Letters and Letter-Writing1,881 words
- 19.Chapter XVIII: Costly Thy Habit1,645 words
- 20.Chapter XIX: Dressing for Driving1,743 words
- 21.Chapter XX: Incongruities of Dress1,689 words
- 22.Chapter XXI: Etiquette of Mourning3,096 words
- 23.Chapter XXII: Mourning and Funeral Usages1,829 words
- 24.Chapter XXIII: Letters of Condolence1,813 words
- 25.Chapter XXIV: Chaperons and Their Duties2,323 words
- 26.Chapter XXV: Etiquette for Elderly Girls1,693 words
- 27.Chapter XXVI: New-Year's Calls2,276 words
- 28.Chapter XXVII: Matines and Soires2,079 words
- 29.Chapter XXVIII: Afternoon Tea1,957 words
- 30.Chapter XXIX1,601 words
- 31.Chapter XXX: The Modern Dinner-Table2,083 words
- 32.Chapter XXXI: Laying the Dinner-Table2,073 words
- 33.Chapter XXXII: Favors and Bonbonnieres1,861 words
- 34.Chapter XXXIII: Dinner-Table Novelties1,791 words
- 35.Chapter XXXIV: Summer Dinners2,120 words
- 36.Chapter XXXV: Luncheons, Informal and Social1,811 words
- 37.Chapter XXXVI: Supper-Parties1,725 words
- 38.Chapter XXXVII: Simple Dinners1,388 words
- 39.Chapter XXXVIII: The Small-Talk of Society2,005 words
- 40.Chapter XXXIX: Garden-Parties1,821 words
- 41.Chapter XL: Silver Weddings and Other Wedding Anniversaries1,919 words
- 42.Chapter XLI: Spring and Summer Entertainments2,274 words
- 43.Chapter XLII: Floral Tributes and Decorations1,702 words
- 44.Chapter XLIII: The Fork and the Spoon1,299 words
- 45.Chapter XLIV: Napkins and Table-Cloths1,613 words
- 46.Chapter XLV: Servants, Their Dress and Duties2,274 words
- 47.Chapter XLVI: The House with One Servant1,398 words
- 48.Chapter XLVII: The House with Two Servants2,061 words
- 49.Chapter XLVIII: The House with Many Servants1,872 words
- 50.Chapter XLIX: Manners.--A Study for the Awkward and the Shy1,821 words
- 51.Chapter L: How to Treat a Guest1,812 words
- 52.Chapter LI: Lady and Gentleman2,267 words
- 53.Chapter LII: The Manners of the Past2,585 words
- 54.Chapter LIII: The Manners of the Optimist1,668 words
- 55.Chapter LIV: The Manners of the Sympathetic2,302 words
- 56.Chapter LV: Certain Questions Answered1,959 words
- 57.Chapter LVI: English Table Manners and Social Usages2,105 words
- 58.Chapter LVII: American and English Etiquette Contrasted2,147 words
- 59.Chapter LVIII: How to Treat English People1,688 words
- 60.Chapter LIX: A Foreign Table D'hote, and Casino Life Abroad1,966 words