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Manners and Social UsagesM. E. W. Sherwood

Manners and Social Usages

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Original author: M. E. W. Sherwood

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"Manners and Social Usages" by M. E. W. Sherwood is an etiquette manual likely written in the late 19th century. The book explores the principles of social conduct, aiming to provide guidance on proper manners pertinent to various aspects of life in American society, particularly as it contrasts with European customs. The opening of the manual establishes the context for its creation, highlighting the unique nature of American society, which was evolving rapidly in the absence of a structured aristocracy. Sherwood elaborates on how etiquette is influenced by both tradition and contemporary social changes, leading to the necessity of creating a distinct American etiquette that balances respectability and accessibility. Prominent themes in the introduction revolve around addressing common questions regarding manners in social situations, the role of women in shaping social gatherings, and the challenges of navigating these evolving customs. The text invites readers to approach the nuances of etiquette with both respect and adaptability, highlighting the significance of good manners as a reflection of one’s character and societal contributions.

Manners and Social Usages, by M. E. W. Sherwood. Republished by OpenStories from Project Gutenberg eBook #8399.

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60 Chapters

  1. 1.Preface1,854 words
  2. 2.Chapter I: Women as Leaders4,487 words
  3. 3.Chapter II: Optional Civilities1,986 words
  4. 4.Chapter III: Good and Bad Society2,091 words
  5. 5.Chapter IV: On Introducing People3,653 words
  6. 6.Chapter V: Visiting2,230 words
  7. 7.Chapter VI: Invitations, Acceptances, and Regrets1,968 words
  8. 8.Chapter VII1,965 words
  9. 9.Chapter VIII: The Etiquette of Weddings2,964 words
  10. 10.Chapter IX: "who Pays for the Cards?"1,973 words
  11. 11.Chapter X: Weddings After Easter1,923 words
  12. 12.Chapter XI: Summer Weddings1,584 words
  13. 13.Chapter XII: Autumn Weddings1,856 words
  14. 14.Chapter XIII: Before the Wedding and After1,906 words
  15. 15.Chapter XIV: Gold, Silver, and Tin Weddings2,139 words
  16. 16.Chapter XV: The Etiquette of Balls2,082 words
  17. 17.Chapter XVI: Fashionable Dancing2,464 words
  18. 18.Chapter XVII: Letters and Letter-Writing1,881 words
  19. 19.Chapter XVIII: Costly Thy Habit1,645 words
  20. 20.Chapter XIX: Dressing for Driving1,743 words
  21. 21.Chapter XX: Incongruities of Dress1,689 words
  22. 22.Chapter XXI: Etiquette of Mourning3,096 words
  23. 23.Chapter XXII: Mourning and Funeral Usages1,829 words
  24. 24.Chapter XXIII: Letters of Condolence1,813 words
  25. 25.Chapter XXIV: Chaperons and Their Duties2,323 words
  26. 26.Chapter XXV: Etiquette for Elderly Girls1,693 words
  27. 27.Chapter XXVI: New-Year's Calls2,276 words
  28. 28.Chapter XXVII: Matines and Soires2,079 words
  29. 29.Chapter XXVIII: Afternoon Tea1,957 words
  30. 30.Chapter XXIX1,601 words
  1. 31.Chapter XXX: The Modern Dinner-Table2,083 words
  2. 32.Chapter XXXI: Laying the Dinner-Table2,073 words
  3. 33.Chapter XXXII: Favors and Bonbonnieres1,861 words
  4. 34.Chapter XXXIII: Dinner-Table Novelties1,791 words
  5. 35.Chapter XXXIV: Summer Dinners2,120 words
  6. 36.Chapter XXXV: Luncheons, Informal and Social1,811 words
  7. 37.Chapter XXXVI: Supper-Parties1,725 words
  8. 38.Chapter XXXVII: Simple Dinners1,388 words
  9. 39.Chapter XXXVIII: The Small-Talk of Society2,005 words
  10. 40.Chapter XXXIX: Garden-Parties1,821 words
  11. 41.Chapter XL: Silver Weddings and Other Wedding Anniversaries1,919 words
  12. 42.Chapter XLI: Spring and Summer Entertainments2,274 words
  13. 43.Chapter XLII: Floral Tributes and Decorations1,702 words
  14. 44.Chapter XLIII: The Fork and the Spoon1,299 words
  15. 45.Chapter XLIV: Napkins and Table-Cloths1,613 words
  16. 46.Chapter XLV: Servants, Their Dress and Duties2,274 words
  17. 47.Chapter XLVI: The House with One Servant1,398 words
  18. 48.Chapter XLVII: The House with Two Servants2,061 words
  19. 49.Chapter XLVIII: The House with Many Servants1,872 words
  20. 50.Chapter XLIX: Manners.--A Study for the Awkward and the Shy1,821 words
  21. 51.Chapter L: How to Treat a Guest1,812 words
  22. 52.Chapter LI: Lady and Gentleman2,267 words
  23. 53.Chapter LII: The Manners of the Past2,585 words
  24. 54.Chapter LIII: The Manners of the Optimist1,668 words
  25. 55.Chapter LIV: The Manners of the Sympathetic2,302 words
  26. 56.Chapter LV: Certain Questions Answered1,959 words
  27. 57.Chapter LVI: English Table Manners and Social Usages2,105 words
  28. 58.Chapter LVII: American and English Etiquette Contrasted2,147 words
  29. 59.Chapter LVIII: How to Treat English People1,688 words
  30. 60.Chapter LIX: A Foreign Table D'hote, and Casino Life Abroad1,966 words