Chapter IV: Part 4
This one incident in which Mary is mentioned between the time of the Marriage at Cana and Holy Week, happened during the second year of her Son's ministry. We do not know whether or not she had been near Him during this time. According to the opinion of some, she was one of the little band of women who followed Him about, to minister to His needs and those of His Apostles. But whether she followed Him actually or not, we know that her spirit was ever with Him, and that she followed Him with her prayers, and interest, and sympathy, _knowing_ Him more as He manifested Himself more by His healing and miracles, and therefore _loving_ Him and _imitating_ Him more, and _therefore_, growing in grace, of which she was ever full. Such, we are quite sure, is a true picture of Mary, though this one instance at Capharnaum is the only occasion on which we are able to make an actual picture of her.
Her Son had probably come to Capharnaum for a rest after one of His missionary rounds; it may be that He had come to have a little time of refreshment with her. And she and His brethren--His relatives--went to meet Him, desiring to speak to Him. We are not told what it was that they were so anxious to tell Him. When they arrived He was already addressing a crowd which was _sitting_ about Him, and which was so great that His Mother and His brethren could not get near Him; and so "they _stood_ without"--on the outskirts--and thus attracted the notice of someone who attracted _His_ notice; someone, in fact, who interrupted Him in the middle of His discourse, by telling Him that His Mother and His brethren wanted Him. Such is the simple incident, and by it Mary affords her Son the opportunity of giving two most important lessons to His Apostles, and also to those who would, during all time, have any kind of apostolic work to do.
_Point II._--A LESSON ON INTERRUPTIONS
He is preaching, and He is interrupted. What does He do? Shows, as He had shown so clearly before, when He was only twelve years old, that His "Father's business" must come first--that He is perfectly indifferent to all natural ties when that is concerned, and that His followers have got to be the same. He is preaching to the people--that is His work, and not even for a desire of His Mother will He interrupt it. He preaches by example what He had already preached by word: "He that loveth father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; and he that taketh not up his cross and followeth Me is not worthy of Me." (St Matt. x. 37.)
Incidentally, He shows us what we may do with our interruptions. We are so prone to let them worry us, to think that they spoil our work, to say: But for these endless interruptions, I could do so much more! What did our Lord do with His interruption, which was a very real one, and far more disturbing than are many of ours of which we complain so readily? He turned it into good use, so that His work was the gainer by it and not the loser. If we cannot always follow His example literally by making the interruption a _direct_ help to our work, we can always make it help _indirectly_ by taking it as a message from GOD, Who would give His Apostle an opportunity of practising patience, self-control, and self-repression. Our work will gain more by these divinely planned interruptions than by the smooth, easy, methods which we had planned for ourselves.
_Point III._--A LESSON ON RELATIONSHIPS
To the interrupter He said: "Who is My mother? and who are My brethren?" And, looking round on them who sat about Him, He saith: "Behold My mother and My brethren! For My mother and My brethren are they who hear the word of GOD and do it." It is the same lesson that He gave to the woman, who probably was one of the very crowd He was now addressing, and who could not refrain from proclaiming before everyone the _blessedness_ of His Mother. To her He said: "Yea, rather, blessed are they who hear the word of GOD and keep it." (St Luke xi. 27, 28.) The lesson, then, is that He holds as His nearest and dearest those who do His Father's Will. His Mother was, it is true, dearer to Him than all besides, was, it is true, blessed above all women; but only because she did His Father's Will more perfectly than any other.
Who is My mother? Any of these in the crowd have as much right to Me as she has, if they do My Father's Will as she does it. This is the lesson that Mary is giving Him the opportunity of teaching.
Would I be dear to Him as His Mother was; would I have that close union of heart; would I see things from His point of view; would I be willing to be put in the background and kept standing there if it furthers the "Father's business"; would I be ready to suffer anything for the spread of His Kingdom? There is only one way--do as she did. "Whosoever shall do the will of My Father that is in Heaven, the same is My mother."
_Colloquy_ with Mary standing in the background. Thou whose
unique privilege it is to be the Mother of GOD, teach me to
do His will in such a way that I may share in some degree thy
_spiritual_ maternity. This was thine by _detachment_--even
from the visible presence of JESUS, by a perfect _performance
of the will of GOD_, and by _suffering_. By thy ceaseless
intercession help me to struggle ceaselessly till I know
something of these three things.
_Resolution._ To prove my close relationship with JESUS and
Mary to-day by the way I do GOD'S will.
_Spiritual Bouquet._ "His Mother stood without."
The Fourth and Fifth Dolours
"_And thy own soul a sword shall pierce._" (St Luke ii. 35.)
_1st Prelude._ (1) Mary meeting JESUS with His Cross.
(2) Mary witnessing the Crucifixion of Her Son.
_2nd Prelude._ Grace to understand what a precious gift
suffering is.
_Point I._--MARY'S SUFFERING
Mary, with the knowledge which she had all her life of her Son's Passion, must have known when the hour was approaching. She had noticed the ever-increasing envy and hatred of the Chief Priests. She knew of the various attempts on His life, and of the organised plot to kill Him. And when the Passion itself began, we may be quite sure that, even if she were not actually a witness of some of the scenes, the Apostles kept her informed of what was going on. She would hear of the Agony in the Garden, of Judas' betrayal, of the desertion of the Apostles; then of the trials, of the scourging and crowning with thorns, of Pilate's vain attempts to save Him; _she_ knew that they would be vain. And when at length the death sentence was passed, she set out with the other ministering women to be as near to Him as she could while He carried His Cross to Calvary. _Once_, at any rate, on the Way of the Cross they caught sight of each other, and had that unspeakable consolation which no one could give to JESUS but Mary, and no one to Mary but JESUS. But though it was a consolation, it was also an anguish so great, that this meeting of JESUS with His Blessed Mother is counted as one of the seven swords that pierced her heart. It is the _Fourth Dolour_. Then, on Calvary's hill, she must have heard, even if she did not see, the nails being driven in; and heard, too, something that gave her strength and courage at that terrible moment--her Son speaking to His Father, the crowning point of Whose "business" He had now reached: "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." Who can measure what the pain of this _Fifth Dolour_ was to Mary! What was it that gave her an almost superhuman courage? The firm belief that everything she saw and heard was GOD'S will; and such was the intensity with which she had said her _Fiat_, that His will was nearer to her even than her own sufferings. In proportion as this is the case with us shall we get the good that GOD intends out of suffering, and join, as Mary did, our prayers with those of JESUS by asking GOD'S forgiveness for all who cause us suffering.
_Point II._--MARY'S SACRIFICE
Then, as soon as the darkness permitted her to draw near without observation, she allowed John to take her to the Foot of the Cross, and there took up her stand. Her sacrifice was very near to its completion now. This is what she meant when she said her _Fiat_ to the Angel Gabriel thirty-three years ago. This is what she meant when she presented Him to the Lord when He was forty days old. The three days' loss, and the separation when He left His home at Nazareth, had been a foreshadowing of this. Now the consummation of her sacrifice had arrived: "And there stood by the Cross of JESUS His Mother"! She had never flinched, had never looked back. It had been _Fiat_ all along the line. She was a "valiant woman" to the end, bravely doing her part, and offering her Son to GOD.
This was Mary's sacrifice--but what is her part in the Sacrifice that her Son is offering to His Father for the world's redemption? Just this, that she provided the Victim. She did not withhold her Son--her only Son. (Gen. xxii. 16.) JESUS on Calvary offered Himself to the Father; and Mary assisted--not only by the perfect union of her will and intention with His, but _actually_, by providing Him with the Body which He was offering to His Father. Her position was that of the Deacon at High Mass. His part is not the offering of the Sacrifice--the Priest alone can do that--but He provides the Priest with the bread and wine which he is going to use for the Sacrifice, and without which there could be no Sacrifice. "A _Body_ hast thou prepared Me"; and that Body came from Mary--it was with Blood drawn from her veins that He redeemed the world. But the Sacrificial Act was His, and His alone: "I have trodden the wine-press alone." (Isaias lxiii. 3.)
_Point III._--MARY'S LEGACY
As she stood there taking her part, how her heart was enlarging! He was dying for the whole world--for the whole human race, past, present, and future--and she was His Mother; she was standing by and assisting; all His interests were hers. She had seen the conversions worked by Him on the Way of the Cross; she had seen the change in the dying thief; now JESUS addressed Himself to her, and by His Third Word from the Cross made her the Second Eve, the Mother of all living--of all for whom He was dying. "Woman, behold thy son!" Again He used the official title--_Woman_; He was not treating her now as _His_ Mother, but rather as the Mother of all. Behold thy son; take John for thy son, and with him take the whole human race. He counted on her power of suffering, and it was through that suffering that she became the universal Mother. He knew how the sword would stab when she heard that she was to take John in His place, but He knew also that the wound made by that sword-thrust would enlarge her heart to take in her new family. He was dying, and His legacy to His Mother was the whole human race. The idea was not a new one to her, for He had been gradually training her up to it, as we have seen, ever since the Incarnation. He added another word to make all sure. He spoke now to John as the representative of the human race: "Behold thy Mother!" The immediate meaning of His words John very well understood--that he was to cherish, support, and take care of her; be a son to her now that her own Son was being taken from her. But He had an intention in that word for each one of us. To each and all He said: "_Behold Thy Mother!_" and from that moment all who will, have the right to take her to their own.
To what extent have I taken this word seriously? Have I really believed that JESUS had me in His mind as well as St John when He said: "Behold thy Mother!" that it was of me that He thought and to me that He spoke? Have I felt the responsibility as well as the honour of being a child of Mary, and that it is my bounden duty to love and cherish her, to support and take care of her--that is, to stand up for her and shield her from those who _will_ not behold her as their Mother? O my Mother, I want more than ever to take thee to _my own_, as thy first adopted son did. Come home with me, live side by side with me, talk to me of JESUS, and thus help to pass the time when you see me getting weary; help me to imitate Him as thou didst, and to share His work by my prayer and sacrifice as thou didst. And then, Mother, thou wilt always be there to show me what sacrifice really means--how it enters into all the little details of everyday life--to show me what having my will united to thy Son's means. Thou wilt be there to put a restraining hand upon me and make me live as a child of Mary should; thou, to whom JESUS was subject, wilt teach me what real submission means. Yes, I am decided that to-day it shall be recorded of me in Heaven: "From that hour that disciple took her to his own."
_Colloquy_ with Mary.
_Resolution._ To take Mary as the special gift of JESUS to
me.
_Spiritual Bouquet._ "There stood by the Cross of JESUS His
Mother."
The Sixth and Seventh Dolours
"_And Joseph, buying fine linen and taking Him down, wrapped
Him in the fine linen, and laid Him in a sepulchre which was
hewed out of a rock._" (St Mark xv. 46.)
_1st Prelude._ A picture of the Thirteenth Station.
_2nd Prelude._ Grace to be unselfish in my grief.
_Point I._--MATER DOLOROSA
As Mary stands at her post, praying for her new family for whom her Son is dying, and uniting herself more closely than ever with His intentions, the sword never ceases to pierce afresh her wounded heart. She has to listen to the cry: "I thirst!" from the parched lips and throat of Him from Whom she had never heard a complaint; and she has to appear to be deaf to His needs. Again she hears a cry, more full of agony even than the last: "My GOD, My GOD, why hast Thou forsaken Me!" and she who once lost her Son for three days (the _Third Dolour_) can understand in some small degree the anguish of that cry. Then after His next words: "All is consummated," she hears Him commend His Soul to His Father, and she watches Him die. She is alone! And not only is she alone, but she has a sense of responsibility. Just as on the occasion of a death among us, the one next has to rise to the responsibility and act _at once_, so it was with Mary. She was the one _next_. She knew that it was to her that the Apostles and all His friends would turn to know what to do--what He would like done. He who had died on the Cross "was indeed the Son of GOD," and she was His Mother; she, if anyone did, must know all about Him. So, although all is over, there is no time for Mary to relax and give way to her grief. There is work to be done--work that He has left her. "It is finished" for Him, but she is only just beginning her work as Mother of the Church. And so she still stands at the Foot of the Cross, reverently worshipping the dead Body to which the Divinity is still united.
Her meditation was suddenly interrupted--"One of the soldiers with a spear pierced His Side"; and again Simeon's prophecy was fulfilled: "Thine own soul a sword shall pierce." Soon followed what is called her _Sixth Dolour_--the taking down of her Son from the Cross. He was in the hands of friends now, and all was done with the greatest reverence and loving tenderness. But nothing could stay the sword from piercing Mary's heart when she received into her hands the blood-stained Crown of Thorns and the rough nails. Nothing could stay it when she had her JESUS once more in her arms, and was able to see for herself the cruel wounds as she washed them and bound them up. Then when the precious Body had been wrapped in the winding sheet, she accompanied the little cortege which carried It to the tomb. And when, after a few minutes' adoration, she beckoned them all away, and the great stone was rolled to its place, the sword pierced her heart again--it was the _Seventh Dolour_--the burial of JESUS.
She allowed John to escort her past the three crosses, along the way which He had trodden, back to the Cenacle. "That disciple took her to his own." The next time we make the Way of the Cross, let us make it with Mary as John did. She will explain to us better than anyone else can, the meaning of each "station."
Mary has left Him now, but she is with Him still in spirit and in heart--hence her strength. What a lesson she gives us on how to act in times of bereavement! We are never to lose sight of the fact that this particular kind of suffering is intended for our sanctification. This will prevent us from allowing it to make us morbid, selfish, gloomy, inconsiderate, ungrateful, acting as though _our_ suffering were greater than that of everybody else, being exacting and fastidious about things that remind us of our lost one--even of having the name mentioned in our presence! What about our sacrifice? Are not all such things as these a part of it? We have no business to add to the trials of others by our tyrannical selfishness. Sorrow ought to brace the soul up to greater heights of sanctity; if it depresses it to a lower level of spirituality, there is something very wrong with us. We are not copying Mary, neither are we uniting our sufferings to those of JESUS--the only way of making them meritorious. Let us see to it that our grief is a source of joy and blessing to everyone else in the house. This means self put on one side; it means a smiling face, a bright, cheery, voice in spite of a breaking heart. It means a great sympathy with the grief of others--and it _often_ means that we shall get the credit of not really caring, of not having much depth of affection, not much heart! But this again is part of the sacrifice which we gladly offer if only it may aid suffering in doing its blessed work. There were those, no doubt, who were ready enough to say that Mary's calm courage was unnatural. But _we_ know that it was supernatural: let us try to copy her in it.
_Point II._--MATER MISERICORDIAE
What must have been the grief of the Apostles--their Friend, Teacher, and Lord dead, their hopes all dashed, and their consciences ill at ease as they thought of their base desertion of Him in His hour of need! They were scattered everyone to his own, but probably one by one they found their way back to the Cenacle. It was the last house where they had been all together with Him, and it seemed natural to go there again--and besides, His Mother was there. She was next to Him, and therefore more to them than anyone else could be. _She_ had been faithful to the end. She could tell them more about Him than anyone else could. Her very voice and manner reminded them of Him. Somehow, they felt that she would look at things from His point of view, and that if _she_ forgave them for the wrong they had done to her Son, _He_ would. Then they would learn from John what JESUS had said about her with His dying lips--that they might now regard her in very deed as their Mother; that she was now in fact the Mother of the Church which He had founded; and that they could turn to her in their times of perplexity and difficulty. "Behold thy Mother"--the Mother of Good Counsel and the Mother of Mercy! Was it not just what they wanted? How well He knew! How thoughtful it was of Him to leave us Mary!
And so we may think of Mary on Holy Saturday rallying her new family round her, loving them for her Son's sake, making excuses for their weaknesses, as a mother ever does, and putting fresh heart and courage into them. And then we may think of her stealing away to ponder--to make the first Meditation on the Passion, presenting willingly her heart to the sword once more, that her compassion might fit her for her position as Mother of Mercy.
_Colloquy_ with Mary, who says to me: For you, too, my child,
"I am the Mother of fair love, and of fear, and of knowledge,
and of holy hope. Come over to me, all ye that desire me, and
be filled with my fruits. He that hearkeneth unto me shall
not be confounded; and they that work by me shall not sin."
(Ecclus. xxiv. 24-30.)
_Resolution._ To take my troubles and difficulties to Mary
to-day.
_Spiritual Bouquet._ "Mater Dolorosa, Mater misericordiae, ora
pro nobis."
The First Glorious Mystery
"_He shall reign for ever, and of His Kingdom there shall be
no end._" (St Luke i. 32, 33.)
_1st Prelude._ A picture or statue of Our Lady.
_2nd Prelude._ Grace to learn from Mary how to rejoice.
_Point I._--MARY'S EASTER DAY
"Of His Kingdom there shall be no end." It was to Mary that these words were said, before her Son was born; and she believed them. She knew, therefore, that He would rise again; she knew that all was not finished when she left the precious Body in Joseph's new tomb. In all probability, too, JESUS had told her, as He told the Apostles, that He would rise again on the third day. And while they "believed not nor understood," _she_ did both. But this supernatural gift of faith, which she exercised to the full, had not the power to prevent the sword from piercing on Good Friday and Holy Saturday. She felt the full weight of all her sorrow, but she sorrowed, as all Christian mourners should do, "not without hope."
What must her expectation have been as she knelt on that Holy Saturday night counting the minutes till the day dawned! She knew that He would rise again--but would she see Him? Would He come to her? He had kept her so much in the background during His ministry, perhaps He will do so still, and it will be to those who need Him most that He will come. No, sweet Mother, the meek and lowly of heart ever attract Him; it is to the heart which _desires_ Him most that He will come. A pure, disinterested desire to have JESUS ever proves to Him an invincible attraction. No one on earth desired to see JESUS as Mary did, and it was to her, as the traditions of the Holy Fathers testify, that He came first--as soon as the Easter Day dawned and "death could no longer be holden of Him." The Evangelists are silent about this appearance of JESUS to His Blessed Mother, for the very good reason that she told them nothing about it. There was no need to do so, as, for example, there was to tell various little details about His Birth, because GOD wished us to know them. At this meeting of the Son and the Mother even Angels would fear to intrude; and we ordinary mortals simply should not understand what took place, even were it narrated to us. All those to whom He appeared would take it for granted that His Mother had seen Him--why write down a thing that everybody knew? "According to thy faith be it unto thee." Mary was the _only_ one who had faith enough to believe that her Son would rise again, and it was only natural that she should be the first to see Him. She was the one who had entered most deeply into His sorrows, and she would be the one to whom He would first communicate the Easter joy. Let us now think a little about Mary's joy.
_Point II._--MARY'S JOY AND ITS CAUSES
What joy it must have been to Mary to see that precious Body which He had taken from her, which she had nurtured and tended and loved, which she had seen so recently covered with scars and gaping wounds! What joy it must have been to her to see It in all the beauty of Its Resurrection--to see It glorified! Her joy was so intense that the saints tell us it was only by a miracle that her body could master her soul and keep it still a prisoner. And then the consolation of knowing that never again would He suffer--the joy of seeing the Five Wounds and knowing that He would keep them always, as precious memorials of His death and of His victory over death, of His undying love for His Church, and of His right to give it all that it should ever claim, because with those wounds He had more than paid for all that it would ever need.
Mary entered into all these truths as no one else could, and therefore her Easter joy was greater than that of anybody else. Her joy was greater, too, because her _love_ was greater. Her love for JESUS was wholly unselfish, and so was her joy; it was wholly on account of the joy of her Son. She forgot her own joy for the moment; she forgot the long exile that lay before her; she forgot everything but His joy.
Her _suffering_ also was indirectly another cause of her joy. Our capacity for joy is in proportion to our capacity for suffering. We have seen something of what Mary's capacity for suffering was, and so we can understand in some small measure how full was her cup of joy.
Mary had other joys too, which were incidental to the joy of seeing her Son risen and glorified. She saw the saints who rose with Him, for He would be sure to present them to His Mother. Some would need no introduction--her dear spouse St Joseph, her parents St Joachim and St Anne.
Yes, Mary's joys more than made up for her sorrows. One day, if we try to receive our cup of sorrow as Mary did, that is, take it _for_ JESUS and _with_ JESUS, we too shall receive the cup of joy, and we shall be able to say with St Paul as we put the two side by side: "The sufferings are not worthy to be compared with the glory." (Rom. viii. 18.)
Teach me, O holy Mother of GOD, something of this real joy--the joy that is arrived at through faith, through suffering, through a perfect union of heart with the Sacred Heart of JESUS, and through conformity to GOD'S will; the joy of the risen life--the new life that rises out of the death to self.
_Colloquy._ The _Regina Coeli_:--
"Queen of Heaven, rejoice,--Alleluia
For He Whom thou wast made worthy to bear--Alleluia
Hath risen as He said--Alleluia.
Pray for us to GOD--Alleluia."
(_Anthem from Easter to Trinity._)
_Resolution._ To say my _Fiat_ bravely with Mary, as the
surest way of sharing her joy.
_Spiritual Bouquet._ "Causa nostrae laetitiae, ora pro nobis."
The Second and Third Glorious Mysteries
"_All these were persevering with one mind in prayer, with
the women, and Mary the Mother of JESUS, and with His
brethren._" (Acts i. 14.)
_1st Prelude._ (1) A picture of the Ascension--Our Lady
kissing the Footprints.
(2) A picture of the Descent of the Holy Ghost--a tongue of
fire resting on the head of Our Lady, who is seated in the
midst of the Apostles.
_2nd Prelude._ Grace to enter into the dispositions of Mary.
_Point I._--MARY ON ASCENSION DAY
Many, no doubt, were the visits that JESUS paid to His Blessed Mother during the forty days that His glorified Body still lingered in this world of ours, as though He were loath to leave it. He was bracing her up for the time of exile that lay before her, filling her with stores of consolation upon which she would be able to draw in her times of desolation. She probably knew that the fortieth day was the last, and that, when He led His little flock out "as far as Bethania," it was His last walk with them. She knew of the "mountain appointed" where He wished all His brethren to assemble--"more than five hundred at once." (1 Cor. xv. 6.) She heard His last words, heard Him charge His _witnesses_: "Going, therefore, teach (_make disciples of_) all nations: and behold I am with you all days, even to the consummation of the world." (St Matt. xxviii. 19, 20.) She was not to be a witness--though she was ever the silent witness of His Humanity--but it was only fitting that she should hear all the orders that were given to her children. She heard of the promise of the Father, and that they were to stay in the city till it was fulfilled. She saw Him lift up His hands in blessing--the last blessing; she watched with the rest His glorified Body raised up from their midst--watched till "a cloud received Him out of their sight," then she knelt in humble acquiescence to GOD'S will and kissed the ground where He had just stood--the favoured bit of earth which was the last to be touched by His blessed Feet. When she looked up, it was to see two angels asking the astonished disciples why they were gazing into Heaven, and telling them that the same JESUS who was taken up from them into Heaven would so come again as they had seen Him go. It was not to _her_ that the angels were speaking--_she_ was not gazing up. She _knew_ the lesson that the others were being taught, knew that her Son was already in Heaven, sitting at the right hand of GOD. (St Mark xvi. 19.) When the Apostles realised sufficiently what had happened, they, "adoring, went back to Jerusalem with joy," (St Luke xxiv. 52), and Mary led them to the Cenacle to "wait for the promise of the Father," as her Son had bidden them.
Thus she taught them the lesson she would teach all her children--that the only thing to do in times of desolation and sorrow is to follow closely the commands of JESUS: "Whatsoever He shall say to you, do ye." It is no use to stand gazing after what has gone; this is no time for regrets; He gave a clear command: "Go to Jerusalem and wait." We shall always find that there is no balm for sorrow like fidelity to duty. It costs something; human nature longs to stay and hug its sorrow; but it is far wiser to turn away from the loved spot and go bravely hand in hand with the Mother of Sorrows to do the next thing to which duty--that is the voice of JESUS--calls us.
_Point II._--MARY ON THE DAY OF PENTECOST
Nine days they spent with Mary the Mother of JESUS, persevering with one mind in prayer, (Acts i. 14), and going constantly to the Temple to praise and bless GOD. (St Luke xxiv. 53.) It was a Novena of prayer and thanksgiving. It was Mary's first official act as Mother of the Church. She kept the little flock together, kept them close to her Son by obedience to His last command, by intercession for the great gift that He had promised to send them, and by thanksgiving for all that He had been to them and done for them. It was the first Retreat, and they made it with Mary, the Mother of GOD.
What must Mary's prayers have been during those nine days! She was now more united than ever to her Son; her eye of faith saw Him at the Right Hand of GOD in Heaven; she saw eye to eye with Him; she knew all His interests and intentions; she had still a Mother's right to command Him; she knew that nothing in their relationship was changed, and that He would not refuse her behests in Heaven any more than He had done on earth. And so, as her eyes swept the wide horizon which was now hers, the Mother of the Church made a Novena for Pentecost, praying with all her knowledge and all her power, for the Holy Ghost to come down upon her children--to come and fill that Church of which she was the Mother, that Church which her Son had founded, for which He had given His life.
These first Retreatants had no books. They needed none--their lives were so closely bound up with the life of JESUS; the Holy Spirit prayed within them; and Mary was ever with them directing, and setting them an example. In proportion as these things are true of us are we independent of _exterior_ help in our prayers. And the more we are able to dispense with exterior help, the more interior and real will be our prayers.
Then "when the days were accomplished"--when the Novena was over--the Holy Ghost came down as JESUS had promised that He should--came down as a tongue of fire upon each one: a proof that He had entered into each one of those expectant, faithful souls, filling each according to his capacity, and giving each the power needful to carry on the work that was appointed for him to do.
What, then, must have been the measure with which Mary was "filled with the Holy Ghost," for what was the Apostles' work compared with hers? She had always been "full of grace"--she had long been the spouse of the Holy Ghost, ever since He had overshadowed her at the Incarnation, and He had always been filling her according to her ever-increasing capacity. We have seen how, under her Son's training, her horizon was ever enlarging--how much wider it became on Calvary, how pain and joy had dilated her heart, how her intercourse with her Divine Son during those forty days had still more widened her outlook; and now, with all the fresh territory over which she was to reign, in her mind and in her heart, she had been praying--the Holy Ghost had been praying within her--for Him to come and overshadow her once again, and fill her with grace that she might be able to meet all her new responsibilities as Mother of the Church. Mary had more need of the Holy Ghost than any of the hundred and twenty souls gathered in the Cenacle; her desire to receive Him too was greater than theirs; and so we may well believe that she received Him in a fuller measure. She had no need of the gifts of tongues and miracles, which were a necessity to the Apostles, to help them in the beginning of their difficult work. Her work during the remaining years of her life was that of intercession, and it was to be carried on in secret and obscurity. The gifts she needed from the Holy Ghost were those of hiddenness, patience, humility, conformity to GOD'S will. She needed Him in all His plenitude to pray within her with "unutterable groanings" for all the needs of the Church throughout all time. Her work was still, as it ever had been, to _ponder_ in her heart--to meditate and hold colloquies with her Divine Son, through the agency of the Holy Spirit, about all the interests which they had in common.
_Colloquy._ "Our Lady of Light, Spouse of the Holy Ghost, I
offer thee my whole heart, my soul and my body, to keep for
JESUS, that I may be His for ever. Our Lady of Light, pray
for me." (_Prayer of Blessed Grignon de Montfort._)
_Resolution._ To think more of the Holy Spirit praying within
me.
_Spiritual Bouquet._ "Sacrarium Spiritus Sancti, ora pro
nobis." (Sanctuary of the Holy Spirit, pray for us.)
Mary's Exile
"_Woe is me that my sojourning is prolonged._" (Ps. cxix. 5.)
_1st Prelude._ A statue or picture of Our Lady.
_2nd Prelude._ Grace to learn how an exiled child of Eve
should live.
_Point I._--MARY'S EXILE
Tradition tells us that St John took the Holy Mother to his house in Jerusalem, and that it was there that she died, though she spent some of the time of her exile at Ephesus. In solitude and silence she pondered over all the wonderful mysteries of her life; she interceded for her new-born child, the Church, which had already so many needs; and she helped the Apostles by her prayers. They were soon scattered in different directions, "making disciples of all nations," as their Master had bidden them; and it would only be at rare intervals that they could come and see their Mother, and talk over their difficulties, and get the advice of her who saw eye to eye with her Son. But what a comfort and strength it must have been to them to know that she was always there, telling her Divine Son of their needs!
And during those long years--according to some opinions fifteen, to others, twenty-three--what was Mary's strength? The same as it had ever been--union with her Son. Every day, tradition tells us, she received Him in the Blessed Sacrament at the hands of St John. What Communions must those have been, when Mary said again: _Ecce ancilla Domini, fiat mihi secundum verbum tuum_, and her GOD was again incarnate within her! What made those Communions so intense? The fact that His love and desire in coming were _reciprocated_. The love and desire are never wanting on His side, but unfortunately there is so little of either on ours! It takes more than one to make a good Communion. _A joining together_ of two is the meaning of the word. If the union is to be strong, fervent, real, lasting, each must do his part. Oh, teach me, dear Mother, how to receive thy Son in Holy Communion. Thy whole life was centred in Him; thy every thought was with Him; everything thou didst was done for Him; every moment of thy exile gladly borne for Him; every sigh a spiritual Communion; and when each day the glad moment of actual Communion came, it was just His embrace--He pressed thee to His Heart for a few minutes, telling thee it would not be long before thy exile would be over, and thou wouldst see His Face again. Thy Communions were an ecstasy of love--help me to put a little more love into mine; teach me to regard them as the Bread from Heaven sent specially for the exile; teach me to make them the centre of my life; teach me to live my whole life with Him, so that my Communion may never be interrupted. This should be the aim, surely, of every communicant; it is the ideal life; it is the life that JESUS intended when He said: "He that eateth Me, he shall live by Me." It is possible; but oh, how far I come short!
_Point II._--THE REASON FOR MARY'S EXILE
Why did her Son leave her behind to suffer so intensely, as He well knew she would, from the separation? Would not the Beatific Vision in Heaven have been better than her Communions on earth? Could not her intercession for the Church have been even more effectual had she been close to her Son's throne in Heaven? Could she not have been the Mother of Good Counsel in Heaven for those who had to guide the Church in its infancy, as she has been ever since?
We can think of many reasons why JESUS left her in exile for a time:--
1. She had to _nurse the new-born Church_ by strengthening and encouraging the Apostles with her example, so like that of the Master Himself, and by supplying the Evangelists with many details of His life, which they could not have learnt from any lips but hers.
2. She had to _establish her position_ as Mother of the Church--the tradition was to be handed down by the Apostles that it was _she_ who guided, and tended, and cared for the Church during the early and tender years of its existence; that it was to her they turned in times of perplexity and doubt; that her constant intercession for them was their strength. This could not have been so had she left the earth with her Son. During those long years of exile the new child learnt to regard Mary as its Mother, and when she was taken away into Heaven, it was quite natural to it still thus to regard her, and to teach all who came after to do the same.
3. Our Lord would give her still more time to _increase her merits_ by suffering. He wanted her crown to be the most beautiful possible, and even for the Mother of GOD there was only one way to make it so--the way of suffering, which intensified her love and humility and submission to GOD'S will.
4. May not another reason have been in order that she might be the _better able to sympathise_ with the exiled children of Eve (_exules filii Evae_)? Had He taken her with Him, they would surely have felt that their Mother could not quite understand their position. And what is such an effectual barrier to sympathy as the feeling that we are not understood?
So Mary was left in exile to gain much that she could not have gained otherwise.
I am one of the exiled children of Eve. What have _I_ got to do as an exile?
1. _I have to establish my position._ There is a certain place prepared for me in Heaven, which _may_ be mine through all eternity. What is to decide whether I get it or not? The way I "pass the time of my sojourning" here. By the time my exile is over, I must so have lived that there must be no doubt about it that I belong to the Heavenly land; that I am a child of GOD and an heir to His Kingdom; that I seek not the things of earth but those which are above; that Heaven is my Home. And what will be my position there? Mary earned her position as Queen of Angels, of Patriarchs, Prophets, Martyrs, Virgins, as Mother of the Church. What position shall I earn? That depends, as Mary's did, on my fidelity to grace. I shall have just that degree of glory and merit to which I have attained when I am called hence to give an account of my stewardship--no less and no more. The position I have to establish, then, during my exile, is that of being known by all the inhabitants of Heaven--all the Angels and Saints--as one who is sure to join them one day. "Make your calling and election _sure_."
2. _I have to suffer._ One of the actual reasons for my being here on earth is that I may _suffer_--not that suffering is in itself good, but it gives me the means--perhaps the greatest means--of developing the virtues which must be mine if I am to enter the Kingdom one day. Our Lord chose for Himself and for His Mother a life of suffering, to make us understand and to show us how suffering may aid us--yes, the very same suffering which hardens the sinner. What is the secret, then, of suffering? That by means of it, and because of it, we may make Acts of Love and Contrition and Submission to GOD'S Will. Suffering is too powerful an instrument to leave our human nature untouched by it; we _must_ do something under it--either _curse_ GOD and die, as Job's wife advised him to do, or _bless_ Him all the more fervently, as Job did. Let me remember, then, that one of the things I have to do as an exile is to see to it that GOD gets, out of each piece of suffering that He sends me, the extra _love_ that He expected would result from it.
3. _To do the work GOD wants me to do_; to work in my little corner of His vineyard; to co-operate with Him in His great work of the salvation of souls; and to show sympathy and kindness to my fellow-exiles.
_Colloquy._ _The Salve Regina_:--"Hail, holy Queen, Mother of
Mercy; hail, our life, our sweetness, and our hope! To thee
do we cry, poor banished children of Eve; to thee do we send
up our sighs, mourning, and weeping in this vale of tears.
Turn then, most gracious Advocate, thine eyes of mercy
towards us; and after this our exile, show unto us the
blessed Fruit of thy womb, JESUS: O clement, O loving, O
sweet Virgin Mary." (_Anthem from Trinity to Advent._)
_Resolution._ To learn the exile's lessons.
_Spiritual Bouquet._ "For we have not here a lasting city,
but we seek one that is to come." (Heb. xiii. 14.)
Mary's Death
"_They that work by me shall not sin._" (From the Epistle for
the Vigil of the Assumption, Ecclus. xxiv. 30.)
_1st Prelude._ A picture of Mary's death.
_2nd Prelude._ To prepare for death by living "by Mary."
_Point I._--"THE STING OF DEATH IS SIN" (1 Cor. xv. 56)
Sin had never touched Mary; there was therefore for her no sting in death. She had no penalty to pay, neither had she to die for others as her Son died. Why, then, should Mary die?
1. Because she had a mortal nature. She belonged to the great human race, and it was therefore appointed unto her to die. (Heb. ix. 27.)
2. Because she chose to die (the Fathers say her Son gave her the choice) that she might be conformable in all things to her Son, and also that she might be the better able to help, and pray for, and sympathise with her children, who throughout all time would be constantly saying: "Pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death."
3. Because Our Lord wanted her to have a specially chosen death--one that came neither from old age nor sickness, but simply from _love_. Her love for Him was so great that her body could no longer hold her soul captive.
4. Because GOD would not deprive her of the inestimable privilege of making the sacrifice of her life to Him, and such a life! This practice it is which makes the death of His Saints precious in the sight of the Lord. (Ps. cxv. 15.)
Let us learn two lessons:--
1. To _choose_ to be in all things conformable to JESUS, even though this choice means death to self.
2. How precious a thing in GOD'S sight is the sacrifice of their lives to Him by His children! Let us resolve to make Him this sacrifice often beforehand--at least every night before we take from His Hands the precious gift of sleep which "He giveth His beloved."
_Point II._--MARY'S PREPARATION FOR DEATH
We are told that some little while before her death an Angel (probably Gabriel) was sent to tell her that her time was at hand. She answered: _Ecce ancilla Domini_ ("Behold the handmaid of the Lord"), and made once again the sacrifice of her life. She then told the news to John, who made it known to the faithful. How great their sorrow must have been at the prospect of losing such a Mother! St Denis tells us that Our Lord brought all the Apostles and missionaries, who were scattered all over the world, to witness her death. She blessed them, and encouraged them to continue their work, saying that she would help them powerfully in Heaven. Her joy was full because the time, which was to unite her to her Son, had come at last; but Mary was not selfish in her joy any more than she had been in her grief. She did not forget the sorrow of her children; they were still to be exiles, but exiles with a Mother in the Homeland--a Mother who would be there to befriend them and take an interest in all they were doing.
Do I realise this--that while I am an exile here I have a Mother in Heaven who is taking the keenest interest in all that concerns me, in all that is preparing me for my Home; a Mother who is waiting there for me, ready to welcome me?
_Point III._--HOW MARY DIED
There was no sickness, no wearing out nor decay of that beautiful body, no effects in it of original sin. Of what, then, did Mary die? Of two things--_love_ and _desire_; and these were so intense that even _her_ body, strong and perfect though it was, had not the power to detain the soul captive any longer. Mary died of love, as her Son had died of grief--a grief which was the outcome of an immense love. Did Mary receive the Last Sacraments? The Sacrament of Penance was out of the question for her sinless soul; we may doubt about Extreme Unction; but with what intensity of love and desire must she have received her Viaticum! And when JESUS came with all His court to fetch her immaculate soul, we are told that she said: "Thy will be done; for a long time I have sighed after Thee, my Son and my GOD; nothing can be more delightful than to join Thee and be where Thou art for ever."
Then the Angels began to sing--all who were present heard them--and while they sang, Mary said her _Fiat_ and died, and her most pure soul began its eternal happiness in the sight of the Beatific Vision. The Eternal Trinity gave it the glory which was its due--the reward of her love so pure, so generous, so constant. She had a higher degree of glory and a clearer vision of GOD than all the Saints, because glory depends on grace, virtue, and merit, of which she had far more than any of them.
What does Mary's death say to me? "They that work by me shall not sin." You cannot be sinless, as I was, you cannot die of love, as I did, (St Theresa and St Philip of Neri did), but you can, by keeping close to me, and doing all your work at my side, keep from all wilful sin, and you can thus love JESUS so much that when He comes to fetch you, death will have no terrors for you, and you, too, will be able to say: _Ecce ancilla Domini_, Here I am, Thy servant, doing Thy work. "Blessed is that servant whom the Lord when He cometh shall find watching"; and the best way to watch is to work at Mary's side.
And let me never forget that my degree of glory in Heaven will be according to the amount of grace and merit that I have at the moment of my death. How thankful I should be that I still have power to increase these! And how eager and zealous to use my time to the best advantage! Death cometh when no man can work--when no more merit, no more reparation will be possible. The point I have then reached will be mine through all eternity. "As the tree falls, so will it lie." Holy Mary, Mother of GOD, pray for me now and at the hour of my death.
_Colloquy_ with Mary, my Mother in Heaven, who is pleading
for me; who is letting me do all my work close to her side;
and who will be there at the hour of my death, to put me back
into the Hands of her Son, Who gave me to her when He was on
the Cross, saying: "Take this child and nurse it for Me." And
He will see to it that none shall pluck me out of His Hands,
for it is impossible for a child of Mary to be lost.
_Resolution._ To let love for her Son keep me close to Mary's
side to-day, listening to all her directions about my work,
so that I may do it to please Him.
_Spiritual Bouquet._ "They that work by me shall not sin."
Mary's Tomb
"_I gave a sweet smell like cinnamon and aromatical balm; I
yielded a sweet odour like the best myrrh._" (Ecclus. xxiv.
20.)
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