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Our DeportmentJohn H. Young

Our Deportment

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Original author: John H. Young

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"Our Deportment" by John H. Young is a guidebook on etiquette and social manners written in the late 19th century. This work focuses on the essential rules and principles that govern refined society in America, offering insights into the nuances of proper behavior, communication, and cultural practices. Suitable for both gentlemen and ladies, the book serves as a comprehensive resource for anyone seeking to navigate social situations with grace and confidence. The opening of the book introduces the vital importance of etiquette, describing it as a reflection of one's moral character and social standing. Young emphasizes that good manners are integral not only to personal success but also to fostering harmony within society. The text outlines that civility and kindness should govern interactions, and it provides a preview of the topics to be discussed in subsequent chapters, such as the significance of introductions, salutations, and the conduct expected during visits and calls. The author's aim is to help readers cultivate an understanding of the refined qualities that define true gentlemen and ladies, ensuring their ease in any social context.

Our Deportment, by John H. Young. Republished by OpenStories from Project Gutenberg eBook #17609.

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37 Chapters

  1. 1.Front Matter1,866 words
  2. 2.Chapter I: Introductory1,667 words
  3. 3.Chapter II: Our Manners2,614 words
  4. 4.Chapter III: Introductions2,517 words
  5. 5.Chapter IV: Salutations2,250 words
  6. 6.Chapter V: Etiquette of Calls3,883 words
  7. 7.Chapter VI: Etiquette of Visiting1,310 words
  8. 8.Chapter VII: Visiting and Calling Cards1,634 words
  9. 9.Chapter VIII: Conversation4,861 words
  10. 10.Chapter IX: Dinner Giving and Dining Out3,406 words
  11. 11.Chapter X: Table Manners and Etiquette1,300 words
  12. 12.Chapter XI: Receptions, Parties and Balls3,549 words
  13. 13.Chapter XII: Etiquette of the Street2,369 words
  14. 14.Chapter XIII: Etiquette of Public Places2,132 words
  15. 15.Chapter XIV: Etiquette of Travelling1,550 words
  16. 16.Chapter XV: Riding and Driving958 words
  17. 17.Chapter XVI: Courtship and Marriage3,571 words
  18. 18.Chapter XVII: Etiquette of Weddings2,723 words
  19. 19.Chapter XVIII: Home Life and Etiquette1,744 words
  1. 20.Chapter XIX: Home Training1,938 words
  2. 21.Chapter XX: Home Culture1,619 words
  3. 22.Chapter XXI: Woman's Higher Education2,201 words
  4. 23.Chapter XXII: The Art of Letter Writing3,841 words
  5. 24.Chapter XXIII: General Rules of Conduct4,279 words
  6. 25.Chapter XXIV: Anniversary Weddings1,110 words
  7. 26.Chapter XXV: Births and Christenings985 words
  8. 27.Chapter XXVI: Funerals1,354 words
  9. 28.Chapter XXVII: Washington Etiquette1,099 words
  10. 29.Chapter XXVIII: Foreign Titles1,406 words
  11. 30.Chapter XXIX: Business1,072 words
  12. 31.Chapter XXX: Dress4,826 words
  13. 32.Chapter XXXI: Harmony of Colors in Dress1,625 words
  14. 33.Chapter XXXII: The Toilet4,835 words
  15. 34.Chapter XXXIII: Toilet Recipes5,524 words
  16. 35.Chapter XXXIV: Sports, Games, Amusements2,722 words
  17. 36.Chapter XXXV: The Language of Flowers938 words
  18. 37.Chapter XXXVI: Precious Stones307 words