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The Gentleman and Lady's Book of Politeness and Propriety of Deportment, Dedicated to the Youth of Both SexesElisabeth Celnart

The Gentleman and Lady's Book of Politeness and Propriety of Deportment, Dedicated to the Youth of Both Sexes

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Original author: Elisabeth Celnart

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"The Gentleman and Lady's Book of Politeness and Propriety of Deportment" by Mme. Celnart is a guide on etiquette and social conduct written in the early 19th century. This work serves as an instructional manual, aimed at teaching young people the principles of politeness and proper behavior in various social situations, including religious observances, domestic duties, and formal interactions. The content reflects a focus on the cultural norms of France and their application across different contexts, targeting both gentlemen and ladies. The opening of the book lays the groundwork for its exploration of social propriety, emphasizing the importance of understanding and practicing the nuances of polite behavior. It begins with the introduction of "propriety of deportment," describing it as a harmonious blend of moral integrity and grace, which should govern both serious moral duties and lighthearted interactions. Mme. Celnart highlights that true politeness stems from self-awareness and respect for others, cautioning against superficial behavior that lacks sincerity. The chapters that follow promise to delve deeply into various nuances of etiquette, from religious conduct to interpersonal relations, teaching readers how to navigate the complexities of social interactions with grace and confidence.

The Gentleman and Lady's Book of Politeness and Propriety of Deportment, Dedicated to the Youth of Both Sexes, by Elisabeth Celnart. Republished by OpenStories from Project Gutenberg eBook #40901.

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52 Chapters

  1. 1.Preface754 words
  2. 2.Introduction: Of Propriety of Deportment, and its Advantages958 words
  3. 3.Section I: Of respectful deportment at Church957 words
  4. 4.Section II: Of religious propriety in our intercourse with the world461 words
  5. 5.Chapter II: Of propriety of conduct in relation to domestic duties523 words
  6. 6.Chapter III: Of propriety of conduct in conjugal and domestic relations1,386 words
  7. 7.Section I: Of the toilet1,785 words
  8. 8.Section II: Of Reputation982 words
  9. 9.Section I: Politeness of Shopkeepers and Customers1,222 words
  10. 10.Section II: Politeness between Persons in Office and the Public187 words
  11. 11.Section III: Politeness of Lawyers and their Clients235 words
  12. 12.Section IV: Politeness of Physicians and their Patients322 words
  13. 13.Section V: Politeness of Artists and Authors, and the Deference due to them995 words
  14. 14.Section VI: Politeness of Military Men166 words
  15. 15.Section VII248 words
  16. 16.Chapter I: Of Deportment in the Street1,900 words
  17. 17.Chapter II: Of different Kinds of Visits3,532 words
  18. 18.Chapter III: Of the Manner of Receiving Visitors1,502 words
  19. 19.Chapter IV: Of the Carriage of the Body1,249 words
  20. 20.Section I: Physical Observances in Conversation471 words
  21. 21.Section II: Of Gestures268 words
  22. 22.Section III: Of the Talent of Listening to Others1,138 words
  23. 23.Section IV: Of Pronunciation674 words
  24. 24.Section V: Of Correctness in Speaking636 words
  25. 25.Chapter VI: Of the Moral Observances in Conversation68 words
  26. 26.Section I: Of Formal and Vulgar Usages1,136 words
  1. 27.Section II: Of Questions, and frequently recurring Expressions315 words
  2. 28.Section III: Of Narrations, Analysis, and Digressions1,358 words
  3. 29.Section IV: Of Suppositions and Comparisons298 words
  4. 30.Section V: Of Discussions and Quotations316 words
  5. 31.Section VI: Of Pleasantry, Proverbs, Puns, and Bon Mots903 words
  6. 32.Section VII: Of Eulogiums, Complainings, Improprieties in general, and Prejudices844 words
  7. 33.Chapter VII: Of Epistolary Composition120 words
  8. 34.Section I: Of Propriety in Letter Writing1,281 words
  9. 35.Section II: Of the Interior and Exterior Form of Letters1,857 words
  10. 36.Section I: Of an Obliging Deportment997 words
  11. 37.Section II: Of Presents723 words
  12. 38.Section III: Of Advice192 words
  13. 39.Section IV: Of Discretion798 words
  14. 40.Chapter IX: Of Travelling738 words
  15. 41.Chapter I: Of Entertainments1,690 words
  16. 42.Section I: Of Promenades855 words
  17. 43.Section II: Of Parties and Amusements1,009 words
  18. 44.Section III: Little Sports and Games of Society310 words
  19. 45.Section I: Of Balls1,363 words
  20. 46.Section III: Of Public Shows or Spectacles639 words
  21. 47.Chapter IV: Of the Duties of Hospitality591 words
  22. 48.Section I: Of Marriage.191,274 words
  23. 49.Section II: Of Baptism.21449 words
  24. 50.Chapter II: Of Duties toward the Unfortunate55 words
  25. 51.Section I: Of Duties toward the Sick, Infirm, and Unfortunate690 words
  26. 52.Section II: Of Funerals and Mourning1,227 words