Chapter XIV: That Everything Hath Two Handles

Every matter hath two handles--by the one it may be carried; by the other, not. If thy brother do thee wrong, take not this thing by the handle, _He wrongs me_; for that is the handle whereby it may not be carried. But take it rather by the handle, _He is my brother, nourished with me_; and thou wilt take it by a handle whereby it may be carried.